August 2018. It was one of the last weekends of summer. I was nervous about hanging out with Big Country for the first time in over 6 months AND his parents. I hadn’t seen them since Christmas. When I got to his parent’s place, he was already there. I was shocked when I saw him. […]
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Big Country…Part 4
January 1, 2018. In all my 20+ years of dating (good lord), I’ve had my share of arguments, disagreements, tiffs, blowups, etc. I have definitely raised my voice to varying degrees; but I had never lost my shit on someone the way I did on him that New Year’s morning. I ran down the stairs, […]
Big Country…Part 3
July 2017. I left for San Diego to see my cousin Kunk mid-month. The Welder and I spent a few days together a week before I left. We went through the motions; sat by the fire, cooked dinner, watched TV, etc. I think I stayed one day too long. It’s like he had a threshold […]
Big Country…Part 2
February 2017. Big Country and I were getting along swimmingly. We spent many evenings cooking dinner together, watching hockey and sitting around his outdoor fire pit drinking, shooting the shit. He seemed like he was genuinely into me. I was liking him more and more despite the obvious fact that he didn’t want a relationship. […]
The Interior Designer
November 2015. Christmas was in the air and I was still on the hunt for a man. Swiping and reading profiles became an obsessive hobby of mine. Again, here was a man I met on Match. He was Italian, clean cut, he looked like he was in good shape and he had a nice smile. […]