Saturday, January 19, 2019. Communication between The Musician and I had completely stopped by this point (his girlfriend was back); but Vic and I were still attending his birthday party at Petty the following evening. I got Raptor tickets from my cousin Eric last minute. I decided to take Vic since we always have good […]
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The Musician…Part 1
Friday, December 28, 2018. It was three days after Christmas. I was single and not met anyone (nor was I intending to) since the second break up with Big Country two months prior. Big Country even had the fucking audacity to phone/text me once in a blue moon and I stopped responding. I was done; […]
Big Country…Part 6
August 2018. It was one of the last weekends of summer. I was nervous about hanging out with Big Country for the first time in over 6 months AND his parents. I hadn’t seen them since Christmas. When I got to his parent’s place, he was already there. I was shocked when I saw him. […]
Big Country…Part 5
May – July 2018. That summer was awesome. Most of my time was spent with my Ride or Die’s, wine club and fam. I went wine tasting and camping. Miss D’s backyard was my second home and Vic and I had our annual birthday BBQ, which was always a fabulous time. Oh yeah, and I […]
TTC…
February 2018. I was dealing with the recent Big Country gong show. I was a hot mess. My girls were such fabulous supporters through the entire process. I swear I called Cheese and Miss D two or three times a day; and if I wasn’t speaking on the phone with them, I was at their […]
Big Country…Part 4
January 1, 2018. In all my 20+ years of dating (good lord), I’ve had my share of arguments, disagreements, tiffs, blowups, etc. I have definitely raised my voice to varying degrees; but I had never lost my shit on someone the way I did on him that New Year’s morning. I ran down the stairs, […]
Big Country…Part 3
July 2017. I left for San Diego to see my cousin Kunk mid-month. The Welder and I spent a few days together a week before I left. We went through the motions; sat by the fire, cooked dinner, watched TV, etc. I think I stayed one day too long. It’s like he had a threshold […]
Big Country…Part 2
February 2017. Big Country and I were getting along swimmingly. We spent many evenings cooking dinner together, watching hockey and sitting around his outdoor fire pit drinking, shooting the shit. He seemed like he was genuinely into me. I was liking him more and more despite the obvious fact that he didn’t want a relationship. […]
Big Country…Part I
September 2016. The buzz was back at work. Me and my work peeps did our typical “how was your summer” conversations. Paul was disappointed that I didn’t have any sexy stories to regal him with. I think he enjoyed living vicariously through me (hehe). He was also eager to set me up with someone, anyone. […]
The Dateless Spring & Summer…
April to September 2016. I vividly remember being ready to be single. Had I not been so disappointed over the last two years, maybe I wouldn’t have been so pessimistic about dating. The whole “take time for yourself and be comfortable being alone” was resonating with me. I had not taken any time to myself. […]